You can easily plan your date by having the following in mind…

Why?
Where?
When?
What?
How?

We will now go through each of these in detail.

Why?

What are your motives? Were you looking for a quickie? If this is the case, best not to tell her upon first approach. General statements like “I’d like to get to know each other better” means that one thing can lead to another.

But, if you would like to have a longer term relationship with this woman, being more specific and sensitive works best. Go ahead and point out her individual qualities you admire and love, and not focusing just on her looks. Perhaps it is her humor, her kindness to people etc. She will feel that you have then taken the time to really get to know her a little better. This will really impress her.

Where?

This will really depend on both your and her motives the moment you met. If the both of you are in it for the quickie, then it is probably mutually agreed its best you head straight for a hotel room or one or the others home.

However, it’s more than likely that the two of you are probably more looking to know a bit about each other first before sex enters the equation. On your first date, it’s probably best to meet up at somewhere more public so she feels both at ease and safe. A popular restaurant, a café, or a park is probably best.

When?

This really depends on the women and what she is comfortable with. If she is more daring, then the early night is perhaps best for an intimate setting. If she is shy and not used to meeting guys, then a daytime date is probably better.

What?

This depends on her interest as well as yours. Any mutual interest is probably best as the both of you are then comfortable with the setting and activity. It could be bowling, a comedy show, horse riding, ice skating pool, a movie etc.

How?

Most women don’t like to give you her home address until they get to know you better. So do not push to know where she lives.

Ask her if she would be more comfortable meeting you at the place of the date or you picking her up at her place. It is likely better to meet her there, particularly on your first date, not only because she will feel safer but also in case it doesn’t work out and you can end the night if all did not work according to plan. Can you imagine the awkwardness of having to drive her home in silence from the date location?

In the mean time, GOOD LUCK!

Men are always griping about how women are difficult to read. We`re not really :)

Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. According to the book, men and women are two completely different beings who communicate differently and see the world and situations in different lights. Although some of you may disagree, there are of course situations where guys just get things wrong which end up with the women being unhappy. And before I get in trouble for so-called male bashing, it happens vice versa too.

But as favour to many sisters out there, lets just try and set the guys straight first. Women are not as complex as you think, you know. All you have to do is please us and we`ll be content. And trust me when I say, if we`re happy, you`re happy.

How do you please women? Its very simple. All you need to do is concentrate on the little things that mean a lot to her and you`re well underway.


I`ll Call You
Seriously, is it so hard to pick up the phone and call or next when you said you would? And if she calls you or texts you, return it. You may not think anything of responding the next day but she`s agonising over the fact that you`re taking too long. We dont expect you to return the call or message immediately although that would be nice but try and do it within a reasonable time frame. Just remember this; response time = level of feeling; the shorter the better.

Whoever said you cannot make someone love you could be very wrong. To a certain degree he or she could have been right but i strongly believe you can make someone love you. Here is how to make them love you and never want to leave your side. It is easy. And even when everybody around you tells you that you can not make someone love you and that you can only be someone they can love you can. That person will start noticing you and even loving you. They might even begin to love you more than you do.

Make that person your friend, you have to be friends first before they can love you. Meet up with them anywhere, make sure you know places they frequent and what time they will pass a specific spot. Say halloo with a smile. Do this for a couple of days. Much later, meet up with them and introduce yourself, you can be very sure they will introduce themselves back. You do not have to strike a conversation with them immediately after this. You can ask them for a date and meet them later. No matter how many times they say no to your invitation, do not be discouraged. Ask them again and again. If you persist they might just give you a date for the heck of it. Don't care much about them giving you a date just to make you stop nagging them.

When you finally get that date with them, make sure you go in a nice place. Strike a very interesting conversation. I would never advice you to be yourself during this time, don't even think about it. What I will advice you not to do is to be too active to the point that you make your date feel uncomfortable. Give them a reason to want to meet up with you the next time. If you are boring, you will never get them to go on another date with you. This first date is your great striking point and it will determine if that person will want to see you again or not. Be very enthusiastic about things. People love intelligent people, try not to look and sound stupid. This way i can guarantee you will make them love you.

Now that they agreed to go out on a date with you and you already had a date with them, don't make them loose their breathing space. Do not be in every corner they turn and spend every waking moments with them. If you do this, you will go back to square one trying to make them your friend again. You don't want this to happen. Give them space, allow them to miss you and look for you. I do understand that you love them and you want desperately for them to love you back, but do not over do it. Sometimes giving people you love space can make them realize that they love you right back. See, you can make someone love you, yes you can.