Dating Chatroom Tip

As a dating chatroom monitor, I see some wonderful posts from some really great people. ... of course, there are exceptions.

One of the things that I have noticed is that when a thread seems to be very negative about past experiences, I see too many people start to get down on themselves. They tend to blame themselves and to challenge their personal self-worth.

Yet, at the same time, a great heart shows through loud and clear.

Whenever you find yourself in a chatroom discussion where it is largely negative, remember this, you have lots of good friends who know you as someone of exceptional value.

You see, build on what you are and what you have even if, for a moment, you don't think that's very much. It is. It was. And, it will be again.

So, what to do first and foremost: DO NOT give any information on what has ever happened bad to you. It's none of anybody's business. Plus, it could hirt ypou later on. And, it just may ruin a possibly good date with someone listening in but not participating. .. just looking.

Remember, there is always a tomorrow. And, believe me, it's a great tomorrow just waiting to happen. But, you have to be open and positive so that it can come into your world.

Ciao for now