You can easily plan your date by having the following in mind…

Why?
Where?
When?
What?
How?

We will now go through each of these in detail.

Why?

What are your motives? Were you looking for a quickie? If this is the case, best not to tell her upon first approach. General statements like “I’d like to get to know each other better” means that one thing can lead to another.

But, if you would like to have a longer term relationship with this woman, being more specific and sensitive works best. Go ahead and point out her individual qualities you admire and love, and not focusing just on her looks. Perhaps it is her humor, her kindness to people etc. She will feel that you have then taken the time to really get to know her a little better. This will really impress her.

Where?

This will really depend on both your and her motives the moment you met. If the both of you are in it for the quickie, then it is probably mutually agreed its best you head straight for a hotel room or one or the others home.

However, it’s more than likely that the two of you are probably more looking to know a bit about each other first before sex enters the equation. On your first date, it’s probably best to meet up at somewhere more public so she feels both at ease and safe. A popular restaurant, a café, or a park is probably best.

When?

This really depends on the women and what she is comfortable with. If she is more daring, then the early night is perhaps best for an intimate setting. If she is shy and not used to meeting guys, then a daytime date is probably better.

What?

This depends on her interest as well as yours. Any mutual interest is probably best as the both of you are then comfortable with the setting and activity. It could be bowling, a comedy show, horse riding, ice skating pool, a movie etc.

How?

Most women don’t like to give you her home address until they get to know you better. So do not push to know where she lives.

Ask her if she would be more comfortable meeting you at the place of the date or you picking her up at her place. It is likely better to meet her there, particularly on your first date, not only because she will feel safer but also in case it doesn’t work out and you can end the night if all did not work according to plan. Can you imagine the awkwardness of having to drive her home in silence from the date location?

In the mean time, GOOD LUCK!

What is cyber sex dating? What goes through your mind when you are stormed with such a question. My younger sister asked me that and i had to explain. It is a mistaken thought that cyber sex dating mostly involve guys sitting in front of a computer masturbating. It involves two people in the many known sex divides which exist. They might be lesbians, homosexuals or parties from opposite sex. The advantage of cyber sex dating is, it is possible to gain sexual pleasures without revealing identities. This makes it more thrilling. Not even married people who can afford to resist the allure of cyber sex dating. Single, married, divorced, widowed whatever the status it does not matter. The engagement is so pleasurable yet so accessible.

Fantasy is the real drive of cyber sex dating. Guys are good at fantasizing thus the assumption that they are the main players in cyber sex dating. It is based on description of the sexual acts. The better you are at describing what you want to be done to you, or what you are doing, or still what you want to do to your partner the more thrilling the act becomes. Sex is entirely a psychological practice therefore if you succeed in making your partner picture and assume the right sexual body temperatures, you are good to go. It is even made more real by the use of web cum. Partners can be able to see what they are doing thus aiding sexual arousal. Seeing is believing. This makes many people find themselves involved in cyber sex dating.

Why do i say find themselves? This is because very few people plan for their first encounter. Cyber sex dating happens in chat rooms or dating sites. It just happens that when roaming from one chat room to another you fall on a person who jokingly starts asking you sex related questions. You unleash details about what turns you on and so much more and before you even know it, you are involved in cyber sex dating. The rest simply becomes history. If happen to like the first feeling you are bound to an addiction. People get addicted to cyber sex dating the same way they get hooked to pornography. If only watching a romance movie can be habitual, what about cyber sex dating where there is communication? The levels of addiction are so great it is unbelievable. Their are people who yearn for it and almost live for it. When it reaches such levels it becomes dangerous and a check is necessary.

Why cyber sex dating? A survey carried out recently showed that, in todays world people rarely look for partners. They date people they work with, go to the same school, they are in the same neighborhood or they just meet by coincidence. The ball rolls automatically and some how they are in each other's arms. This shows that no much effort is put in finding the real partner. These are people who know you and you might be uncomfortable to get naughty with because of the circumstances under which you met. you will only stick to the ordinary. Cyber sex dating offers an opportunity to explore sexually, fulfill your fantasies while you remain anonymous.