Dating Tip.
Sometimes you're just not sure whether s/he is a player or actually, truly, really into you and just you now and for the foreseeable future.

Here's a simple thing for you to do with your next date.

Take that person to where there is known to be ample temptation. Now, I've seen this in the reverse sense. And, it's gotta be pretty traumatic for the victim.

Here's what happens.

You're sitting there with your date. You're chatting away. Just then, some really handseome guy or beautiful girl goes by. Your date just drops his or her focus on you and does a thorough scope job on the person walking by.

Then, it happens again. Then, it happens again after that.

What then follows is that person changes their sitting position so that they can get a better angle of not just the front, but also the back of their interest.

While guys are particularly prone to this not so subtle (and not too damned bright either) approach to oogling, flirting, or simple interest, women do it, too.

I remember leaving a resteraunt recently. And, on passing before another table on my way out, this lady, on a date, just totally dropped her interest in him and gave me the smile, the complete look over from face to package, and stayed fixed on me until I passed.

What should her date have done?

Get up. Go over to the waiter. Tell him the table at which he was sitting. Get a bill for his share of the meal. Then, leave!

Never take a back seat to anybody for any reason. Don't even allow that person back into your life. You are worth far more than anything approaching that kind of treatment.

If you don't set those parameters for yourself, you will always attract only scumballs like that.

When dating, give your date 100% of your attention. And, demand the same until the date is over... even if you have to walk out of it a bit early.